The role of genders has
been an issue in our society since birth. For those that have children we often
police them to do those that only their type of sex would normally. I do not
want to sound sexist, but often it is the mother who lets their child be who
they truly want to be, however Peggy Orenstein is questioning it. Orenstein's
wrote a piece called "What's Wrong with Cinderella?" after realizing
that her daughter was being driven to become a Disney princess which she was
trying to avoid. As she began conducting her research she realized that genders
do play different roles because the way how society looks at them. Reality
Television is an excellent of this because it is without a doubt that women
that are Reality Television Stars are police severely than the men. In
Orenstein's work she had a quote from author, Susan Douglas:
"We can excel in school, play sports, go to
college, aspire to- and get- jobs previously reserved for men, be working
mothers, and so forth. But in exchange we must obsess about our faces, weight,
breast size, clothing brands, decorating, perfectly calibrated child-rearing;
about pleasing men and being envied by other women."
To
add on to my argument another modern example is to take two different types of
sexes and compare and contrasts how the public viewed their actions. Nicole “Snooki”
Polizzi from The Jersey Shore and
Scott Disick from Keeping up with the
Kardashian had both been arrested from a DUI (Disick) or Public
Intoxication( Polizzi); You would figure that both would receive the same
criticism as the media found out their mistakes, however it was Snooki who
received the short end of the stick. Polizzi’s arrest was aired nationally and
was viewed as a “comedy piece” to the general viewers from ages 14- mid 20’s;
however parents of those teens reacted differently. Their policing mainly
contained “You are seen by young girls” and “Do you want to be viewed as this
type of person, be a woman”. Disick on the other hand was generally not
intensive as Snooki’s reaction.